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Post by pixiediva24 on Oct 14, 2003 19:40:59 GMT -5
Hi all ;D. It's just lil ol' Pixie here to see if any of you are intrested..I was thinking that in this thread we could give advice to ppl of the forum who need help with stuff .Sound good??
-please forgive my typing...i'm not a good speller..-
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Summer Sparrow
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Post by Summer Sparrow on Oct 14, 2003 22:46:28 GMT -5
sure! Great idea! Now who's our first patient? ;D
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Post by Crazy4Orlando on Oct 15, 2003 15:06:36 GMT -5
How do you tell a friend when you are really annoyed at a thing she does but she always thinks there's nothing wrong with her??  |
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Post by Mrs Dan Hawkins on Oct 15, 2003 18:20:10 GMT -5
U sit down with her and gently explain that sometimes the things she does can annoy u and that you know she thinks she is doing no wrong and you don't mean to upset her but that you had to tell her this before it really began to annoy u and did damge to your friendship.
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Post by pixiediva24 on Oct 15, 2003 18:45:00 GMT -5
Maybe telling your friend what annoys you, and asking her to try and not to do it around you..I just broke off a friendship today.I'm very relived that we aren't friends anymore...
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Post by Summer Sparrow on Oct 16, 2003 3:15:48 GMT -5
depends on what type of friend, example if she's your VERY BEST FRIEND in the world, she should already know what annoys you, but if she's clueless, yep the straightforward approach is the best bet, krys summed it up quite nicely. ;D
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Post by Crazy4Orlando on Oct 16, 2003 17:51:57 GMT -5
No, it's like this, whatever anyone tries to tell her, she's always blocking so-called "insults". She basically REFUSES to acknowledge her faults. And what really gets me is that she won't hesitate to tell someone their annoyances.   |
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Post by pixiediva24 on Oct 17, 2003 17:05:47 GMT -5
No, it's like this, whatever anyone tries to tell her, she's always blocking so-called "insults". She basically REFUSES to acknowledge her faults. And what really gets me is that she won't hesitate to tell someone their annoyances. Then the next time she starts telling you what she hate....dish out some of the stuff that annoys you....and even if you think she's not listening...I'm sure she is....That how ppl are. Some anyway... |
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Post by Crazy4Orlando on Oct 18, 2003 23:34:03 GMT -5
Well, see, I'm not sure how she would take that. Mad, understanding, sad, etc.? I don't want to lose her as a friend, even though she has some flaws I don't like.
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Post by Mrs Dan Hawkins on Oct 19, 2003 7:15:40 GMT -5
Ok let me tell u this one of my m8s has this one big flaw , she doesn't listen to u when u really need to talk instead she talks about herself .The way we all deal with her is to look like we r listening and zone out on her ,nodding every now and again as if we agree.If u try doing that but make it obvious u aren't listening by yawning or looking at your watch every so often c if she gets the hint
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Post by Crazy4Orlando on Oct 19, 2003 14:32:23 GMT -5
Good idea. Maybe finally then she'll get it that she's not the center of everyone's world. Thanks for helping guys! Now for someone else's problem ... ;D |
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Post by Mrs Dan Hawkins on Oct 21, 2003 18:32:42 GMT -5
yup yup next problem for the agony aunts *pulls out her old S.O.S badge and pins it on* there we go my old counceller duties have begun again 
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Post by Crazy4Orlando on Oct 30, 2003 14:28:34 GMT -5
Wow. People are really peaceful these days, aren't they! ;D We haven't had a problem in two weeks ... or maybe some people are just shy?
Or maybe we just give really bad advice and no one wants to be a victim. ;D
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Post by Athena on Oct 30, 2003 15:40:12 GMT -5
Now now, everyone has problems, just, not many poeple enjoy dishing them out on the internet ;D
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Post by pixiediva24 on Oct 31, 2003 15:03:10 GMT -5
Well looks like I've missed a lot of stuff. I've been grounded and we just lost aol... so now I've got to start using my comcast email address..lol.Oh and the friend that I was having trouble with is no longer friends with me....I couldn't take it any more. So it's over..I'm kinda happy...but then again i'm not.She is a very disrespectfull person and only cares for herself and the "pretty" people..
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